{"id":1296,"date":"2004-10-23T09:59:00","date_gmt":"2004-10-23T15:59:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/?p=1296"},"modified":"2004-10-23T09:59:00","modified_gmt":"2004-10-23T15:59:00","slug":"i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2004\/10\/23\/i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet\/","title":{"rendered":"I realize I&#8217;m not a parent&#8230; yet."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I just read an <a href=\"http:\/\/netscape.healthykids.com\/hk\/story.jhtml?storyid=\/templatedata\/lhj\/story\/data\/16169.xml\">article<\/a> that impressed me. It&#8217;s from Netscape&#8217;s Healthy Kids section.<\/p>\n<p>Now, I&#8217;ve gotten to the point where anything that looks like it might be sold at the checkout line in a super market is something that translates in my brain to &#8220;Fluff.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Cosmo, People, and even Time. It&#8217;s just stuff to fill up your brain with impression rather than anything of value. (And I know I&#8217;m going to get flack for daring to call &#8220;Time&#8221; &#8216;fluff&#8217;)<\/p>\n<p>So, Heathy Parenting magazines&#8230; I am kind of wary. Everyone who&#8217;s ever been a parent has given me that , &#8220;Oh, yeah&#8230; Go read the magazines.. Sure.. that&#8217;ll help&#8221; line that drips with so much sarcasm that I have to wear hip waders.<\/p>\n<p>That being noted&#8230; The article was on the 10 things your teenage daughter doesn&#8217;t tell you. the article impressed me because to be honest, it handled the teenage mind very much in the manner that I remember mine working.<\/p>\n<p>The article made me actually feel good because I have mentally tried to transcend the gut reaction to many of the points brought up by the article. One point talks about how teens want to be (or be with) a celebrity. I was like that as a kid&#8230; (Who says I still don&#8217;t have dreams of people 100 years from now walking on the sidewalk in Hollywood and thinking, &#8220;Andrei who?&#8221; The writer comments about not dismissing the childs dreams but helping them understand the machine and careers and encouraging their pursuits.<\/p>\n<p>My favourite in the list is &#8220;I&#8217;m not religious, but I&#8217;m spiritual&#8221; If that is the worst thing I have to deal with&#8230; I&#8217;ll be very happy.<\/p>\n<p>Again&#8230; Good article \ud83d\ude42 At least in my wholly unexperienced world view.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sharedaddy sd-sharing-enabled\"><div class=\"robots-nocontent sd-block sd-social sd-social-icon sd-sharing\"><h3 class=\"sd-title\">Share this:<\/h3><div class=\"sd-content\"><ul><li class=\"share-facebook\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-facebook-1296\" class=\"share-facebook sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2004\/10\/23\/i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet\/?share=facebook\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Facebook\" ><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-twitter\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-twitter-1296\" class=\"share-twitter sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2004\/10\/23\/i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet\/?share=twitter\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Twitter\" ><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-pinterest\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"sharing-pinterest-1296\" class=\"share-pinterest sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2004\/10\/23\/i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet\/?share=pinterest\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Pinterest\" ><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-tumblr\"><a rel=\"nofollow noopener noreferrer\" data-shared=\"\" class=\"share-tumblr sd-button share-icon no-text\" href=\"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2004\/10\/23\/i-realize-im-not-a-parent-yet\/?share=tumblr\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Click to share on Tumblr\" ><span><\/span><span class=\"sharing-screen-reader-text\">Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window)<\/span><\/a><\/li><li class=\"share-end\"><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I just read an article that impressed me. 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