{"id":2643,"date":"2008-07-11T10:30:00","date_gmt":"2008-07-11T16:30:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/?p=2643"},"modified":"2008-07-11T10:30:00","modified_gmt":"2008-07-11T16:30:00","slug":"how-to-unnerve-people-on-line","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2008\/07\/11\/how-to-unnerve-people-on-line\/","title":{"rendered":"How to unnerve people on line"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;m standing on a long line in front of a pair of Asian women. They began carrying on a conversation in <i>&lt;&lt;Insert glyph based language I sure as hell don&#8217;t know&gt;&gt;<\/i>. Normally, when on line, if you hear a conversation near you, you casually acknowledge it and may jump in or pay attention to it.. if it seems appropriate.<\/p>\n<p>While the U.S. doesn&#8217;t have a standard, primary language&#8230; I find the use of non-English in the US is a way for a group to cordon themselves off. It sets up an intentional wall in a manner similar to installing a fence around your yard.<\/p>\n<p>While language may be foreign&#8230; tone, body language, aren&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I found myself paying attention to the conversation I didn&#8217;t understand. I was riding along with the tone. And found myself chuckling at a pause point that felt like a humourous statement. <\/p>\n<p>I found the one woman unnerved that I chuckled with her friend. It was as if I&#8217;d walked through her gate. She seemed to be wondering. &#8220;Oh, crap. Does he speak my language?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So not eavesdropping. 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