{"id":505,"date":"2002-08-21T14:04:00","date_gmt":"2002-08-21T20:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/?p=505"},"modified":"2002-08-21T14:04:00","modified_gmt":"2002-08-21T20:04:00","slug":"would-you-trust-anyone-in-icu-to-this-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.lordandrei.com\/blog\/2002\/08\/21\/would-you-trust-anyone-in-icu-to-this-person\/","title":{"rendered":"Would you trust anyone in ICU to this person?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Well, with any amount of luck, by the end of the day, I will know my sister&#8217;s location. while her health seems to be improving, more of the situation is deteriorating. today I found out exactly how unrelyable my mother is and how venomous and poisonous she&#8217;s being to the situation. I am doing everything I can on my end to help remedy this. Hopefully by the end of today I will know more.<\/p>\n<p><!--more It's hard to believe this woman is considered the caregiver at the hospital...--><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"#006633\">(01:06) Andrei: Right on time. I give you punctuality.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:07) SisAIM: Oh, thank you.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:07) SisAIM: I will be at the hospital in an hour and a half. Can you bring laptops, to hospitals?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:08) Andrei: I don&#8217;t see why not. Which hospital are you going to?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:08) Andrei: Laptops is one thing. I don&#8217;t think you&#8217;ll get a net connection, though<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:08) SisAIM: S*** is having someone take me. I guess this Shadyside hospital.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:09) SisAIM: Your mother is making me mad.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:10) Andrei: What happened?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:11) SisAIM: I called Shadyside and asked for D*** Robertsons room in NICU and got nowhere, like you. Ten minutes later I got a phone call from S***, saying, <\/font><font color=\"#FF0000\">if I ask again, I can find another place to live like D***. D*** is being tossed out after she recovers.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:11) SisAIM: <\/font><font color=\"#FF0000\">D*** is a loser like her brother and not worth it.<\/font> I am mad, confused, and miffed.<br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:11) Andrei: S*** said that about D***?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:11) SisAIM: Yes.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:12) SisAIM: I am having W*** take Anna, until I can find a place for her and D*** to go.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:12) Andrei: And this is the sole person assuming care. I&#8217;m going to have to call a lawyer. This needs to end. <\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:12) Andrei: Do you know &#8220;who&#8221; is taking you to see D***?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:12) SisAIM: How can you do that when you are in Cali and I am here.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:13) SisAIM: Some coworker of S***&#8217;s.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:13) SisAIM: W*** said probably a Jittney. What is a Jittney?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:13) Andrei: I&#8217;m sorry, this situation has pushed me to the point of livid.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:13) Andrei: Not at you at all, you&#8217;ve been more than helpful<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:14) SisAIM: W*** also said, S*** slaps D*** for stupid things. Also blames D*** for H***&#8217;s death. Now I know why D*** did this.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:14) SisAIM: I really want her away from her mother.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:14) Andrei: jitney is a motor vehicle liek a bus or van that transports passengers on a route for a small fare<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:15) SisAIM: Like a taxi?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:16) Andrei: Similar<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:16) SisAIM: D*** once told me, she stole a checkbook from S*** to pay for her perscriptions. She did not care if she wrote bad checks, either.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:17) SisAIM: If D*** is up to it, when I go, and I can get a net connection, do you want to talk to her?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:17) Andrei: When are you supposed to see her?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:18) SisAIM: I am leaving at 5pm, my time.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:18) Andrei: What I want first and foremost is to talk to a doctor.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:18) SisAIM: I can do that, does she have your phone #?<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:18) Andrei: I want D*** to know I care. And that she&#8217;s not alone and I&#8217;ll do anything i am able to to help her.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:19) SisAIM: You&#8217;re better off helping than me. I just lost my job. :O<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:20) Andrei: \ud83d\ude41<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:20) SisAIM: All of us got laid off by PCTIS.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><i>I call a Pgh friend who&#8217;s been doing an inredible amount of supportive legwork to update her on the situation<\/i><\/p>\n<p><font color=\"#006633\">(01:28) Andrei: Touching base with F*** who you spoke with yesterday<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:28) SisAIM: She just Instant Messaged me.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:30) Andrei: okay. I&#8217;m going to give you a number. It is the main number for my company. You can be transfered to my office by giving them my name. I&#8217;d ask under no circumstances it be given to my mother or D*** at this time. Once I have a nurse\/doctor at the hospital I will give them a contact number. My mother has gotten phone numbers for me too many times and she&#8217;s been told the next time she contacts me I wil have a restraining order filed against her.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:30) SisAIM: Ok.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:31) Andrei: <i>Office main number<\/i>, ask for <i>me by legal name<\/i>. If I&#8217;m out of the office, leave voice mail. I will check it routinely. <\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:32) SisAIM: Ok, that is great. I will give it to the Nurses Station and Doctor&#8217;s will be notified. Also I will make sure S*** does not obtain this.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:32) Andrei: give me a call as soon as you have a hospital\/floor\/etc. Make sure D*** communicates that I am aloud to talk to doctors.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:33) Andrei: I think this stunt is revenge because S*** wasn&#8217;t allowed to deal with my dad.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:33) SisAIM: This is funny, I am going to have to ask my father for money. All I have been doing is eating Taco Bell for a week now. S*** is not hospitable, at all.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:34) SisAIM: Your mother was medical power of attny. She was allowed to deal with H***.<\/font><br \/>\n<font color=\"#006633\">(01:35) Andrei: Not at first, she had to get it from him after the first problem. The first time she was barred.<\/font><\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t budget for a sibling suicide attempt this month, so I&#8217;m a little short until the end of the month. I wish I could help<br \/>\n<font color=\"#0000ff\">(01:39) SisAIM: I am going to get ready to go. 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