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Slice of Life by Gisele http://giseleart.com/

My social networking time has gone to hell. I think that’s readily obvious from the lack of frequency on this blog.

I suppose one could say that no news is good news. Or that the lack of postings indicates I have a vibrant and busy life.

They could say that; I think however my response would be, “Comme çi, comme ça” (assuming I have remembered how to spell my H.S. French.)

There is no patently ‘bad news’ at the moment. Work is settling in. Life is settling in. We’re even holding the rare social night. 1.25 nights a month. (You get a quarter/month night when you schedule poker on the 2nd and penultimate 4th Wednesdays.)

There are so many things just out of reach right now for a number of reasons.

First, and foremost is ‘move recovery’. Two cross country moves in two years is physically and mentally devastating. Including the move from Pittsburgh in 1998 and the return move this year I have moved 9 times in 12 years. I am told that 3 moves is equal to a fire that destroys everything you own. So I have done that 3 times. (And yet, my comic book collection survives) Personally, it is my plan (as usual) that this leap, was the leap home. Er… this move was the move home.

Second is the health and wellbeing of my family. I am as previously mentioned a care-giver for a person living in chronic-pain. On top of that, we are parents to an almost-four-year-old. And let me assure you… We take personal Will very seriously in our family. And our dear son (who really was born on 9/3) seems to have inherited both his parent’s penchant for being STRONG WILLED. Happily however, he is easily bribed by the reward system of giving him “Blue’s Clues.” Not the show, but awarding him 1/2 to a ful paw print “Clue” for good behaviour.

Work is keeping me busy. Last week I put in 3 10’s, an 8, and a 4. I also managed to walk down 19 flights of stairs twice during the week much to the amusement of my cube farm neighbor who is in stunningly amazing shape. I wish I could talk about the details about what I’m working on beyond… yes… I’m writing an iPhone app. Because “Mondo-Cool” doesn’t even begin to explain it. I can’t even tell people the cool code-name I came up with for a potion of the project because the name itself is an amazing give away if you try to solve the puzzle.

The overly-seasonable heat of the summer has also been a killer. As I inch my way through my early 40s I find that the heat really wears me down. I find I want to spend most of the time sleeping. Sometimes this includes work, but I’m pleased to announce that I have never slept on the job.

In town I’m beginning to ramp up my contacts. I have a few sitters that we’ve tried for Aiden. This seems to have gone well so far. (Someday, I will have to post about the hell that was my live in nanny when I was young who was hired in when my parents went to my father’s medical conferences.) I’m also preparing to start doing classes in my tradition again. There are so many local activities and people from my past and I’m currently farming thru which ones I actually want to bring back into my life. 12 years away gives one time to think and also to grow up a bit.

My metro Pittsburgh years were ages 19-30 and now I return at 42. There’s a HUGE difference in personal outlook when you return at that age.

I can’t think of much more now. I just wanted to get a post out there for the love of Pete. (A phrase which I’ve never understood) Now I just need to get my random stolen picture for the post. (Which, for Marcos’ benefit is in fact the now obvious way that I track hits rather than my pixel graphic)

I hope to come up with more soon. But saying that I will just makes me fall off the net for a while.

hrmnph. Must not be too stodgy.

*waves*

When you log in on WordPress it has a checkbox that says, “Remember me.”

I haven’t posted here since the interview. As anyone left reading can tell.

There have been a few things that have contributed to this.

  1. From the time of the interview I had a verbal job offer within 2 days. I was in town for a week 2 weeks after, had 3 weeks to move, didn’t find a house, moved to an apartment and this weekend I’m moving into the house we finally found.
  2. We were initially unable to find day-care for my son. As a result; mom has been on full-time solo-parenting duty. Please see my post on being a care-giver to understand how wrecked she’s been in the evening.
  3. I’m back to full time work as of 3-4 weeks ago after being off work for about 4 months. With this not only comes the adjustment of rigourous work, but ramping up in new technologies. Well, old technologies but handled in new ways you’re expected to learn, grok,and take ownership of already.
  4. And least of all… I haven’t had much to say.

Moving back to the ‘Burgh has been good. I bus downtown. (I miss my afternoon busses usually by a minute). I’ve reconnected with a few people. Some of which I thought I’d never speak to again. One really nice lunch this week at Primanti’s with probably one of the last people I thought I’d enjoy a lunch with. And for the record. I wouldn’t mind lunching again or more regularly with this person.

I’ve been chatting with an old friend from my SCA/Pennsic days online. Many of my old friends from then are married and/or have kids. (Hell, I do) My one friend and I have been up talking often until midnight local time or later. Since I get up at 5:30 for work (I am working 7-3 to be home early)… this has left me a little groggy in the morning. But the conversation is wonderful. So, I expect those conversations to continue even if we adjust our curfews.

I’m hoping this little exercise will start to break down the mental block I’ve had about #4 above.

Initially any new posts may be short so I don’t overwhelm myself into not posting.

My amusing link for the week has been the anonymous crush meme at:

http://www.thiscrush.com/~lordandrei

So here’s a chance to humour me either publicly or privately, openly or anonymously.

More soon. *waves*

To say that I get easily distracted or have severe ADHD would not be entirely true. Granted it wouldn’t be entirely false either. What being this way means is that you can get easily derailed from something you were otherwise paying attention to.

Add to this that I also fall into hyper focus. This can be called many things: “The Zone”, “Fugue State”, “Project minded”, etc. What this means is that when I get into a project I will throw everything I have into it. I will burn late night oil to work on it. I will become innovative to try new things associated with it.

So the collision comes up with one last factor. I call this “The daunting spectre of struggle.” When I get to a, “But I don’t wanna. That’s going to be [hard | lugubrious | tedious | take too long without interruption]” phase. At this point I step back from the project to ponder about it. I come out of hyper focus. At this point ADHD/distraction can move in and another project can sweep me away.

Two weeks ago I was doing family research. I absolutely adore building this huge tree for my son. Now that I have a child I can actually feel legitimised researching my loved one’s family since my own family history is fairly impossible to research. My wife is Western-European, Blue Blood…. all those good things. I’m the touring company to “Fiddler on the Roof”

This however once again caused me to contemplate some genealogy tools that I need that just don’t exist. And the quite transition occurred. I spent last week working on my GEDCOM parser. It took me a day or two to get that back on my plate. But, I made some great progress and rebuilt a code version system archive to replace the one that got eaten. Of course this got me into the annoyance of parsing DATE data. It’s really quite ugly. It’s going to require some directed attention and the weekend got in the way. I really can’t code and monitor the toddler.

Yesterday my loving spouse (@livingartist on twitter) finally finished and posted some AMAZING artwork which you can see on her blog. I have a web server and actually serve her web site and blog. As a result I can monitor the hits. I am also a statistics nut. I suppose this is the case because I actually didn’t take statistics in college. I’m bad enough that I was charting her labor contractions with a moving average. (Sadly, she was prodromal with complications right up to delivery; my statistics were therefore all for naught)

I’ve been tracking her hits and retweets with some software I developed last year. The process is great. I can graph hits per 10 minutes and per hour. I have moving averages. A second piece of code tracks retweets so that I can reference promotion to data spikes. I’ve almost got the entire process automated. I just need to make a few more tweaks in between updating the data by hand ever hour or so. So, how many people followed me from Genealogy to Web Analytics?

And here’s my problem. I don’t track the projects I’m working on well enough to go back to one when I drop one. I need to find a great way to manage not merely what I’m working on; but what stage it is in and how to steer myself back to those projects. Steering is part of the problem. Motivation is another. And of course documentation so that it doesn’t take 3 days to get back on track. What would be even better is if I could budget my time to work on these projects all concurrently.

The process to organise this has begun. And sadly becomes another distracting project all by itself. I have an internal network Yes; I’ve built an external as well as internal with only self-taught IT experience. On the internal network I have installed MediaWiki. This is the software that Wikipedia works on. I’ve also started this blog, which is my way of keeping myself honest.

So next I post this entry on the blog. Then, I mark down the Web Analytics Application in a couple of places. After that, who knows? Just by writing this post. I’m letting myself get out of the Zone.

All positive energy, support and wishes welcomed

I was one of the 1400 casualties at MSFT today.

More info is available on twitter (@lordandrei) and Facebook.